Thanks everyone - every bit if advice is appreciated. I suppose I got the glimse of the "Angelic" child and now it "hurts" to have lost her. I will definately have a chat to our Dr about proper allergy/intollerance testing, my hit and miss method at the moment obvisiously isn't cutting it. Also DH needs extra prompting to take things like this seriously, so if I can get my Dr on side, then he may be able to convince DH to be supportive if we have to do a full on elimination diet. Would much rather have tests run though.

Doing what I can to survive at the moment (DH is away again), trying the method of lets go to sleep in the lounge room for a few nights before going back to the bedroom, to see if that helps as it has in the past.