As for the food, sometimes I think that Jessalyn survives on air. Seriously, she doesn't seem to eat at mealtimes at all, so she must survive on a couple of snacks a day, and would drink about a million litres of milk if I let her (and she doesn't have the good stuff either, it would be more so with a breastfed child).
Lordy, this is Indah to a "T"...

I just pick my battles with her & leave fruit etc out for her to snack on...

Sorry Astrid I dont have anything extra to add, the above ladies have covered it all....