Jennifer - yep - I just openly let ppl see what/how we do things... and it often leads to questions and discussion. It was really nice to hear those teenage girls talk about cloth nappies actually (teens are very enviro friendly oriented these days it seems!) and so I was able to show them the nappies and talk about how easy it is to use etc. I breastfeed in company - and that raises eyebrows, and then more questions. hehe. They can see our philosophy is 'do whatever works'