Well said Liz and jennifer. I'm another "lazy" BFing co-sleeping parent LOL All for just doing what feels right intuitively.

If the Rod-for-the-backers had all the answers there wouldn't be so many baby care/advice books on the market.

I also generally do what Dachlostar does: smile and ignore. But somedays i argue their points... just depends on my mood and/or how my children are at the time.

I also agree: there is no better defence than success and I generally find that my "attachment parented" children are more settled than those raised according to the philosophy of the back-rodders.