exactly what i was trying to say!

thanks everyone for your replies, i knew i wouldnt be alone in thinking this but i wondered just how many spoke of their feeling surronding GP
its also had when your mum questions whether i should be feeding DD so much overnight or when your MIL teaches CC
Yeah that would make it extra tough. Having the people closest to you doubting your methods and not being supportive will just undermine your resolve every time! Just remember that you are among friends here on BB!

I don't have too many people sticking their noses in around me (most people that know me well know that once I have set ideas there is no changing them) but I am sure I have people tut-tutting behind my back. But I have the unwavering support of my DH which goes a long way and to me is the most important. I have learnt to (mostly) ignore the naysayers who dare to voice their opinions to me or DH.

Oh and not boasting, but I do have a good sleeper. But we have other challenges!!