Hello JordieC:

I think us women in general get the GUILTS over stupid little things all the time. I know i do lol .
Worse for me as i was a single mum for 6 years when i met my beauitiful finace DF Scott.... ! AS im so used to doing EVERYTHING i have to allow myself to be spoilt . Im not used to someone else making cups of tea or dinner (but i love it) or more towards your topic yes getting up to a child! Im pregant again to my second and scotts 3rd and he said he was always a hands on dad from the word go and i asked yes but at night it would be the pits as you would be tired for work he said chikdren are only little for a short time and it is all part of having a baby!

YES I hear where you are coming from but i think you just have to tell yourself not to worry and actually count your lucky stars that your partner likes helping!

Men arent like us women ...they dont tend to need as much sleep as us and when they do they totally crash and you cant wake them even with a bomb lol

So take a step back my dear and enjoy your partnership and your little one.

Cheers Ainsley