He just does not want to let go, even when he's asleep - he totally uses me as a dummy/pacifier....Actually, you know what kills me the most...having to face him and facing the one side all night! I love sleeping facing the left but I can't because DS constantly wakes for bbs and I have to turn around again!
In the end I would let DD feed for a reasonable time, then I would roll over and say "that's enough darling, you've had a drink". She would fuss for a bit and then go back to sleep. Wearing a tshirt helped so I could cover my boobs and prevent access. And I tried to think of the little feet kicking me in the back as a massage! I still pull DD into my bed in the mornings so that we are having some gorgeous snuggles, I couldn't go cold turkey, I would miss her toooooo much!