tis okay caro!!!!! i understand :-)

i guess it just feels weird because i hear a lot of (by around 4 months a pattern should be emerging), and its just not happening whatsoever... also a lot of the babies in my mums group seem to run like clock work....

DD is so different.... completely different one day to the next... for example she only had two half hour naps today, then at 3.30pm went down and now at 5.30pm is still asleep.... where as yesterday she had two hours in the morning, then two hours in the evening, then bed at 7pm.... tonight i am sure she wont go to bed until closer to 8 or 9 depending on when she wakes.... but it would have been cruel not to let her sleep at 3.30pm, and i certainly don't feel right waking her, as she obviously needs some sleep....

just wondering if such differing days really matter in the grand scheme of things... i try to encourage a 7pm bedtime, but obviously since its 5.30pm and she is still asleep, that is out the window today.