Hey Soul,
Welcome to my world! LOL. I'm in nearly exactly the same boat, only Claudia is as nice as pie during the day & despite the 2 x 20 minute catnaps she has a little halo shining all day, it's when the sun goes down that the devil horns & tail appear! I'm lucky if she will go over 2 hours at night & she is the same as Phoenix - not hungry, just wanting to know that I'm there & will go back to sleep for another 2 hours. She has been waking at 2-3am sometimes & screaming the house down, going absolutely off her nut until I either put the tv on & some lamps & she thinks she is awake for the day or give her a walk around the house. Every night after she goes down, she wakes exactly 30 minutes to the dot & I have to re-settle her. Either walking around with her, feeding her, just whatever her little heart desires. LOL. Tonight however, she has broken the rules & has been asleep since 8pm & it's not 9:36pm!
I have frozen EBM in the freezer, so this morning I thawed some out & said to DH 'she's all yours for the morning'. I took Jessica to the Playschool concert & when I came home the minx had been asleep nearly 2 hours & put herself to sleep! grrrr
Good luck to you honey, I'll be thinking of you tonight wondering if you're up at the same times that I am, but hoping like mad that you aren't!
Love Jayne xox