Thanks for the suggestions, she loves it outside but our backyard is not really great (we plan on building soon so moving).

Hoping after she gets a few more things to play with for Christmas it may help.

This is her being her version of gentle rough http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-A8eHO5pb1w

We have tried timeout with some success but it stopped working when she was out of nappies as she will just wee to get out of it or say wee's wee's so I let her use the potty.