As a child we knew better than to go into mum and dads room during the night. I shared a room with my little sister. But I remember feeling scared of ghosts a
and nightmares and desperaty wanting my mum. Sometimes I would sit outside her bedroom door just for company. The other side could be to ask people who did cosleep with their parents how they felt about their experince -in my expperience they always talk about it warmly and positively.
When I had my first child I definately wasn't going to co-sleep -my children weren't going to rearrange my organized life. Luckily my first was a very persisten and patient boy who taught me different. Co-sleeping is one of the most precious experiences I've had with my children