thank you all. all comments have helpes me be more patient and look at things in a positive view. Really ... it's great you guys respond out of good will. I feel like it's all genuine advice and i really really do appreciate them. Thank you very very much.

I am going to start a new thread/question about gym ball weaning. Hope anyone with ideas can help me out. I'm willing to give it a go. I haven't yet posted the question but will get to it soon if I have time god willing.

Thanks again