i was considering only having one pram and carrying bub in a sling .. but as a new mum being tired and having a sore back and running around pushing a toddler or watching him with the harness , sounds like a bit of a night mare to me ..

i love the idea of carrying my nb in a sling and being as close to it as possible but i think even if i went out with dh , with him as a helping hand , i just think of going to the loo , eating and picking things off the ground or shopping for clothes or groceries .... it would just be a bit to much in the beggining .. and what happens if on the off chance bubs doesnt want to be in a sling the entire trip or if you want a hot coffee????

i dont like the look of p&t at all , there have been some overseas modles we like , and the maclaren mx3 with toddler seat ....

the money is an issue , but its worth it in the long run ..... but i am a firm beliver in " you buy cheap , you buy twice" so a one off fee on a tandem/double pram is a good investment ....

with an older walikng toddler a toddler seat attacthment is good , you can get peg perago's with a toddler bar on theback where the toddler can stand ... and you wont necesairly need a side by side one .... and pram companies would make a product that was unsafe ....

But , what if you want to pop into the movies unexpectedly, will you sit there for ages with a baby on your front ????