Yeppo on the stickers and chart !We've been doing them since Cait was 2.5 and it was about having a dry bed at night. Now it's about doing as she's told, making her bed, tidying up etc. It does not have to be fancy, just a piece of A4 with a week or month ruled up on it.

Nadia - Cait was also a monster at the start of this year - I put it down to the age and starting kinda so we started the time out chair behind the front door facing the wall. You say to them 'IF you keep that up, THEN you will go in the chair' - first for five minutes and then for ten minutes. I haven't gone past ten minutes yet. Also bought a timer so she would know when the time was up and would not have to ask all the time.