Dee, Erin is identical to Ashlea when it comes to dinner. She is happy to eat all day and eat heaps over the day, but come dinner time it is WW3 LOL. We have battled with her over this many a time and now we realise she is just happy to eat a lot through the day and by the time she has her dinner, she is full IYKWIM and doesn't want much. So i just give her a very small portion (Paige even has more for dinner) and then she doesn't feel pressured to eat such a large meal. And if she does eat it all then she has dessert, but if she doesn't eat it, then there is no dessert. That's the best solution we came up with anyway.