. I know he can tell me what's wrong, I asked him repeatedly to use his words. But he would just whinge louder. So I yelled, I'm certain it didn't help the whinging, probably made it worse, but I was so frustrated that nothing was working.

I'm sure my neighbors think I'm the mother from hell
yupp.. im hearing you.. i loose my cool a little too often. and when i do she shuts down and wont talk, just makes "baby noises" is the only way i can discribe it.. lately though, has been tough, i broke my arm and am finding EVERYTHING frustrating, ive warned everyone that i am constantly on my last straw so PLEASE bare with me. but obviously she doesnt know that.. she knows mummy has an ouch. and that its broken. but thats it.
she comes to me and says sorry to ME when i am the one who should be saying sorry.. worst mother of the year award right here
sorry, i didnt mean to overtake, i too need to find a better solution than yelling