All presents are wrapped - well except for the ones I picked up yesterday - will get to them later today.
Am baking some cookies and making fudge this afternoon for a friend as we are catching up tomorrow. Other baking & making will be done Tuesday & Wednesday as we are catching up with DPs grandmother and then friends on Christmas Eve.
DD is too young for lights and DP is not a fan but will go when DD is older and he is not so grinchy LOL.
We have to get a few more presents - just small things and things I might kill - ie a plant for my best friend... I have no green thumb so I find it is best to buy those things as close to the event as possible LOL
I have DD's presents still to wrap and something for TK's DD.
I'm making fudge, white christmas, shortbread and rocky road tomorrow ready to take them to Sydney. Not sure whether to wrap them up in cellophane tomorrow or wait until we get to Sydney (we're heading down on Wendesday).
We drove past christmas lights on our way home from MIL's on Saturday night, Sophie's eyes were wide open as she turned her head from side to side so she could see the lights on both sides of the street.
have been putting off wrapping presents until i could get some time when E would stay asleep and DH didn't need me to do other stuff. i think tonight might have to be it! put daddy on bubba duty, and everything will be wrapped
Christmas this year seems to have lost a lot of it's shine the past couple of weeks. four people that we are close to have either passed away themselves or lost a parent. most recently my Uncle's Mum on Friday. as much as i'm trying to be excited for E, it's hard when you know that people you care about are grieving...
add to that the fact that i had the bombshell dropped on me on Friday that my dad may not come out on Christmas Day - he has to work the night before and that night (taxi driver) - and if it's too busy on Christmas Eve, he'll need sleep and won't want to drive out here (about 20mins) and then back before going to work. i am feeling really bad about it all - my bro lives within a minutes drive of my parents. if Christmas was at there place, there is no way that dad wouldn't be there for his grandkids, but because we're having it out here, he might not show. as much as it will hurt that he won't be there for E, she won't know - the older kids (9, 7, 5) - they'll know... i rang my bro yesterday and had a talk to him - asked if he wanted to relocate to their place but he is grumpy at my dad about something and hasn't spoken to him for a month, so doesn't care if he sees him or not. i have asked him to warn the kids they may not see Granpa on the day - i don't want to feel responsible cos we decided to have Christmas here this year (was our turn, but we've known that dad was working and didn't change it - didn't think he'd not come seeing he said all along he would - until friday...)
anyhoot - made a test batch of chocolate fudge last night - mmmm yum! gonna have to get some more chocolate and condensed milk to make more.
hoping to get a photo of E with Santa today. but if it's busy or she is grizzly i'm not going to bother - as nice as it woudl be to have it, we have some gorgeous photos of her anyway!
ETA - we have lights up outside - and any of my friends on fb will attest to the decorations inside! just need to put batteries in some of the noisy things for the kids to play with on Christmas Day (to annoy granma - i can block it out! lol)
Registered User
it is hard when the ones you love are grieving.
Reply With Quote
Bookmarks