Sara I hear you.

One xmas my sister wrote me a text message and said "don't worry about presents this year because we're not gonna have much room in our car, so instead just give us some money will do"
Can you believe that?!?!?

I told her to get stuffed and that it was rude to ask for anything!!!! She learnt her lesson

This christmas is great.... it's just me and DH

eta - just buy her something she hasnt asked for haha