We don't do Valentines Day. We tell each other we love each other multiple times a day, go on dates etc and generally treat each other like the centre of the universe every day anyway. We didn't know what to do about Valentines Day when we first got together. It doesn't mean anything to either of us but we didn't want to offend the other person, in case they thought it was.
After discussion, we developed our own tradition, of buying either a really, over the top, soppy card or a funny/filthy card for each other. The worst/best wins. And that's it for us for VDay. We make a big deal out of our anniversaries and birthdays instead.
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