Oh and forgot to add for presents with the ILs and cousins we are doing a Russian Kris Kringle, which means we buy one present, to the value of $20 I think we are going. Can be anything, wine, choccies, something naughty, something practical, vouchers... Whatever!

Then we draw straws to start... And the first person pulls a present at random. They choose a person to go second... And the second person picks a present and then gets the option to swap with #1. If #2 wants to swap, #1 has to swap! No choice!

Then #3 can swap with either 2 or 1, but only once. And so on! So the last person gets the pick of everything!!!

Negotiation always encouraged