OMG! I think so far I've spent maybe $80 on DD? And that's including birthday things! I'd like to get a couple more things (clothes, one of those trolley mates and a couple more toys) but I don't think I'll get past $150 for birthday and christmas. For my siblings and neices and nephews, we rarely spend more than $30, though we will if we know it is something they really want. (But I have a lot of neices and nephews, so it does add up, LOL).
DH and I are pretty hopeless with money, and often buy things that we want when we want them instead of waiting til birthday or Christmas, so unless there's something special we don't usually spend much on each other. But this year he's dead keen on a new telly, and I don't think he'll be dissuaded, LOL.