I don't like the fuss of it, but we make a point of doing something a bit out of the ordinary together. We're doing it tomorrow night, I've got some seafood and making spaghetti marinara and a prawn and mango salad, and I got some cake from a cafe (needing all my willpower not to eat it tonight!) I can't decide if I put it out with some candles on the table, or once DD is in bed, put a picnic rug on the floor of the lounge and have an indoor picnic. I don't go for the whole present thing, although DH has been known too. I like the idea of having a day where you remember each other, where normal life doesn't get in the way, no bill talk, no worries, etc, just me and him and us together.