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  1. #1
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    Nov 2005
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    Thanks for sharing your planned homebirth outcome here
    Stillbirths, unfortunately, happen at any planned birthing venue When discussing my birth plan, my middie and I talked about what would happen in the case of a stillbirth and if we had any religious preferences etc, so we were well prepped. Our midwives also had the resuc equipment that they set up as soon as they got here. They said they could count on one hand the number of times they'd had to use it in their homebirth careers.
    Homebirthing didn't give rise to your stillborn, Bec, that was going to happen - it's the skill of a midwife that will determine how soon a complication is picked up. A breech shouldn't even be a complication for a good middie.
    It's important to allow private MW's to continue practicing with their qualifications because they are more up to date in their professional development than hospital midwives and are able to mentor student midwives who otherwise would never see a homebirth (and often, never see a normal labour and birth). Word of mouth recommendations are good at the moment, but will deteriorate in reliability if private MW's are stripped of their credentials. Over the years what will be the benchmark of a good 'unofficial' midwife for the freebirths women will be forced to have?
    Midwives who work in with other midwives are the best option for 'risk management' because you've got collective skill and experience. Yes, it's more expensive - we can't afford it, but we did it anyway.
    Bec - you can't be sure that a hospital would have been able to revive your baby with any better success, and it would be great to think that they would have. It's just not based in fact. Hospitals can claim higher perinatal morbidity rates than homebirths or homebirth transfers. Homebirth in itself is not to blame.
    I guess what I'm trying to say is that us in this thread are already made more than aware of this kind of risk of birth (not just homebirth, but a risk of giving birth and carrying a child). I'm tipping that those of us in this thread are also aware of the far more plentiful risks of giving birth in a hospital if there is no clinical need for it. For some of us that awareness may have come from previous experience, for others anecdotally.
    This thread is a nice haven from the barrage of "geez, you're brave" (on the mild side) to the "you are risking your child's life", "your child could die", "leave it to the doctors" attitude we cop from many angles. I would just assume that we have weighed up the risks and benefits. Your assertion that being rushed to hospital is 'likely' is vague - hospital transfer for a homebirth in Australia is low. I know a lot of homebirthers and only one had to transfer for a c-section. Her first was a c-section transfer from a birth centre. She gave it a red hot go and had an ace midwife team for her homebirth who recognised in a timely fashion that things weren't going to go to plan.
    Again, thanks for telling us the outcome of your planned homebirth. Have you debriefed your experience? There's a good thread for birthing debriefs on BB
    How's everyone else going? Bimboo? Tashy - congrats!!
    DS still talk about the birth! He talks now about when he was born in water and assumes other babies are born peacefully at home

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    Jun 2008
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    Thanks Mayaness. We've booked an IM for a homebirth. I've had a few fear issues with this pg that relate to my previous m/c, so may need to consult with an OB anyway. Which I guess is what I think they're for - consulting on possible complications. My IM is pretty risk averse and would transfer for twins or breech. I'm OK with this, as it's our first and at least she'd still be with us at hospy. I hate hospitals though, so hoping it doesn't get that far.

  3. #3
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    Apr 2008
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    DS still talk about the birth! He talks now about when he was born in water and assumes other babies are born peacefully at home
    Hehe so very cute

    Aprel, that is fantastic, you lucky woman

  4. #4
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    Apr 2009
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    thanks lorirae, I was quite amazed at how close to the private model the homebirth program is. Total continuity of care, reasons for transfer were very close to reasons under the private model, and I won't be forced into hospital if i'm overdue either (like in bc's)... i was amazed, if the baby is fine, then i'm allowed to wait and see under their model of care....

    even the birthing pool is free....

    unfortunately, there are restrictions with VBAC and women who are overweight, but hopefully one day that will change...

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    Jan 2006
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    Welcome aboard, Aprel. Good luck for a happy and healthy pregnancy and an awesome homebirth.

  6. #6
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    Jan 2010
    WA
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    Smile homebirth rocks!!

    ello ladies just thought i should do what i always say i should do.....tell the world about how wonderful homebirth can be!! i work as a midwife and have worked in private and public and the sad and traumatic births that i have seen....my goodness dont get me started as i may just cry!

    On the brightside i had my beautiful daughter in the comfort of our own home last year in april, wow what an experience! it was wonderful, my hubby is probably the biggest homebirth advocate now he has experienced it (i already was a huge advocate!) the difference in our experience was huge, despite a decent length of labour, my bub and i were both so healthy before, during and afterwards and breastfeeding came naturally. i feel so bonded to my bub and have found that during my pregnancy, labour and postnatally with the assistance of my midwife i have learnt to listen to my instincts (finally!)

    The continuity of care provided by my midwife made such a huge difference and she is still available for questions should i have any. I found the close friendship that bloomed between my midwife and i was magic and she truely only needed to give me that "i believe in you" look when i was in labour and immedietly i felt so much stronger! Even when i had been pushing for 2 hours neither my bub or i were stressed and my midwives continued to support me and encourage me, no time limits that has to be one of the most fab things of all! Both my hubby and i know that we would not have had the birthing experience that we had should we have chosen to bith in hospital. My contractions were fab until about 6-8cm when my labour started to have large rest periods and my progress slowed down due to my bub being asynclitic and compound (head to the side and arm by her head) should i have been in hospital i would have been encouraged to have a synto drip, which very well may have stressed both mum and bub as it often does after a long early labour then i may have caved and wanted analgesia (prob not though im pretty stubborn!) and very possibly ended up with an instrumental birth as there was slow progress when i was pushing (once again due to asynclitic bub).

    my husband and i are forever gratefull for all the support we received from our midwife, she was out on her feet but still 'with' us which is all we truely needed.

    Our experience has also given me a goal for the future as continuity of care and homebirth is what i would love to provide for all women.Thank god for homebirth midwives i say!!

    as some would say i was not brave for having my baby at home, they are brave for having theirs in hospital without fully understanding the differences!

  7. #7
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    Jan 2008
    Brisbane
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    oh bimboo I so wish I could be at your birth! It would be lovely. How sad is our medical world that when my mum was a mw in sydney 35yrs ago all she saw was twins birth naturally, she can not understand what all the hoohar is about. I'm only in redland bay!

  8. #8
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    Dec 2009
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    Hi everyone! I'm due to homebirth in August, I thought I'd dive in and say hi

    I've just chosen a private midwife, and everything is full steam ahead from here! My first birth was a horrific hospital birth that ended in c/sec and ptsd. My second was a planned hb tf to necessary c/sec, my third was a planed homebirth, tf because of premature labour at 28w which resulted in a vba2c but my son had died pre labour. THIS TIME I'M DOING IT AT HOME!!!!

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