Ok so we may have hit a slight bump in the road with our home birth.

My grandad is seriously ill and we arnt sure how much longer he will last without a surgery he needs but he won't consent to it the surgery til after the baby is born because it has a high mortality rate for him.
So seeing as we are 37 weeks on Monday our midwife will consider letting us induce (well try to push it for us) if that what we decide we want to do. It's not def that they would let me induce though but its a possibility.

I'm torn. I want baby to chose its own birthdate but I also want my grandad to meet his great grand baby.