Welcome Sunnylove, and congrats on the new little one on the way!
Love the look of that homebirth list....

ReeRee - Wednesday is still ages away - don't stress. Can you plan some nice, distracting things for the next couple days? A pedicure? Massage? Lunch with friends? Start a small project for baby (crochet, knit, sew, draw, paint, whatever)? Go for some acupuncture to help things get started...? I'm sure it will be just fine.

Beatrix - all the best with your grandad! Hope that little one makes a timely appearance.