We haven't found out either time. I am tempted, just because I want to know gender to prepare myself. Maybe so there isn't gender disappointment at the birth? But then I think, well if I just assume it is another little beautiful girl, then I will be happy. And if it is a little boy, then we will be shocked and happy. So yeah I can understand why you might want to do it differently this time. Even if it has nothing to do with gender disappointment or whatever. Each pregnancy is different. Do you think there is a negative? I mean you can wait and choose later to find out, if you think that you will be cross with yourself.

Oh and maybe if you lay on your tummy, you will feel baby move.... I felt dd at 14 weeks, and dd2 at 10/11 I ish weeks, but only when I laid on my tummy. Dunno if any of that helps, but I reckon you will find the right thing for you. Trust yourself.