Thanks ladylove . Not yet. But you girls will know first. This feels like the place I can share most openly, even knowing that this isn't completely private I don't want to have him tomorrow, cos dh is oncall and my photographer is away. But after that I am all go! Have been thinking Friday maybe? We will see. I have a gf who is 43+ weeks atm, so it is a reminder to me, that that may happen to me too, but I doubt it.