Hmmm, that's a tough one, meow. What's your gut telling you? I'd go with my instincts. You've mentioned a lot around the practising climate, so it sounds like you're trying to give her the benefit of the doubt. Does that mean you'd rather take this as an isolated incident? You could try sending her a light-hearted response to it - something along the lines of "Woah, that's a lot of reading to take in! Thanks for your advice, but I'm pretty sure that I just need to keep an eye on it from the outside at the moment. You know my aversion to ultrasounds so that's not an option I'd take lightly." Maybe remind her that you're not a first-timer who needs educating, just support.

AFM, pretty sure I'm clear on the pg front. I think the symptoms I was having are an indication of my cycle returning.

Bella - hope you get the thrush sorted quickly.