That was lovely Dot Face. I so agree with her comment about 'shame on the doctors'. Indeed! Huge shame on them as she has proven beyond doubt that her body WAS able to birth and they didn't even want her to try?!

I had my first of two meet & greet MW appointments today. It went super well and I think this MW would be a much better fit. She seems more confident and less likely to react with the biggest medical drama to every little thing. She also has years and years of experience in this area so she would be a good ally if I did have to engage a hospital or 'the system'. And she works pretty much as a team with the same backup midwife and said they have a very symbiotic working relationship... my previous midwives were like that and I find that very appealing.

I have another MW appointment on Friday so I guess I'll decide after that!