Thanks guys And I've just spoken to a doula, she was a doula for a BB girl (maybe more), I met her a while back at the screening of Throwing Out The Lies With The Bath Water, we made a good connection then so I emailed her, and we're going to meet up in the new year and she offered her services at $800 instead of her usual $1600 which is awesome. She's a midwife as well so I reckon she'll be fab. Soooo happy and excited now that everything is coming together!