If not, we birth in hospital and we say goodbye to another baby.
this might sound really strange and not well thought out, but if bubba does have the same condition, do you have to have them in hossy? i'm just thinking outta the box here because my mate who had a baby with severe breathing complications was born at home (they didnt know about his congenital issues) and the thing that stuck in my mind was that the mum said it was the best birth journey she could of given him as it was peaceful, quiet and respectful ITMS.
also...not sure (total brainstorm moment from someone with a PTSD and fear of birth wards ) if baby does have the same thing as baby L could you still bring them home? i know that it sounds weird, but maybe that could be a good way to run from the hossy and spend quiet time with your people?

just a thought...and you dont need to answer to this at all...total brainstorm

Stoked: omg, not long for you either! wow, once that 27 weeks is past it all just seems to hit fast forward for me