With my daughter (first bub) breastfeeding was a real hurdle to say the least. I was convinced that I would breastfeed (didn't really even factor in bottlefeeding) but it turned out to be the most difficult thing I have ever endured (both emotionally and physically). I persisted and after 10 weeks of toe curling pain and dreading her waking for a feed it gradually got better (slowly!). I then went on to feed her until she
was 14 months, even after going back to work 3 day per week when she was 5 months old and only then stopped because she wasn't really interested any more. It was a sad day to end it all, especially after the rough start that still brings tears to my eyes as I write about it.

I am now breastfeeding my 5 month old son and plan to do so until he doesn't want to any more. Again the start was rough. Again I sat in tears as I fed him - but knew I could do it (although I did have real doubt at times).

I just wish that more information was out there before you have bub to really prepare you for the ups and downs. I went to breastfeeding class before my daughter was born and after the first time round thought the second time may have been easier (it was a little, but not much). Nobody said about how much it could hurt - all the information says it shouldn't if you are doing it right. I went to midwives and lactation consultants who all agreed that everything seemed OK - but it HURT and took perseverance and determination. Starting breastfeeding is the hardest thing I have done in my life, but I am very proud of being so damn stubborn and not giving up. I am also proud that I went on to get to 14 months.

I am glad that others think like me and feed their babies 12months plus. So many people are surprised that I fed my daughter until 14 months and intend on doing so with my son.

Congratualations all who do what is best for their children and stand up against the stigma (for want of a better word) of breastfeeding for longer than what is perceived a baby.