What a great post Sim. I completely agree. There really is not enough information out there. Its not like we all chat about breastfeeding and the expectations of it. I think its great though that so many of us are breastfeeding longer and that it is becoming more normal to do so...it breaks down walls so to speak.

I also had very sore bbs in the first few weeks despite correct attachment. I think that is very normal. Any ongoing contact on bbs that are not used to it no doubt causes tenderness. I didnt like being told that i mustnt be doing it right if its hurting (one midwife said this) when I could see that she was and that she was gulping and putting on substantial weight.

I think this site is great because its women supporting women doing what women naturally are able to do.

Jo