Ubba82 - my mum also 'blames' all the harmful reading I supposedly do on the internet or books. She makes many a snide comment about the information I read. She has in the past stated that I am not following my instincts enough etc. The ironic thing is that I read things to justify and support my instincts (which are to BF and not to let him cry etc etc) because I don't get the support in my approach from those around me...

I never realised just how intolerant/judgmental my mother could be - particularly on something so natural and personal as raising your baby!