I read SO much info once I found out my DD had colic. I found I was feeding her so much more than I fed my son. So I wanted to find out if she would be spoilt and dependant, and it turns out that no baby under 12 months can be spoiled. They say it's worse for you to 'let her learn' because babies need to know that they're loved and secure- and can cause bigger problems later on if not attended to.

That's just what I read! DD has settled now, and is now 5 months and doesn't feed anywhere as much as she used to

Good luck!