I really wasn't that interested in feeding my first child. My husband encouraged me to give it a go and see how I felt.. and I did.. i lasted 3 months.. I have then gone on to feed my other 3 children and wanted to do it

My opinion on breastfeeding especially in those first few weeks. feed often and when baby wants to be fed.. day or night.. As they get older you will know if they want to be fed or if they are just grizzly. My 2 yr old son was demand fed till he weaned himself at 21 months. He is not spoilt can be a brat though but has nothing to do with being demand fed..

The best thing you can do for yourself, DH and baby is to get support. N offence but having people around you who are saying comments such as not to demand feed and no need to BF at all is not going to help you on those rough days and nights that will happen..

Good Luck.. May you enjoy a long and enjoying breastfeeding relationship