Thanks everyone!

She was OK this time - I must be getting more militant as she'd taken some of the clothes back and told me she'd kept receipts for the others! The only one she couldn't take back was a tigger t-shirt, but she thinks my sister would like to see him in it.

She did really annoy me with his feeding (constantly crying that he was choking whenever he ate anything) and wanting to give him honey, ice cream, scone, custard... but in the end just got a Look and she didn't give him food. I am dreading him understading this; how will I say no when he knows she has offered food (a lot of her cooking has nuts in). DS has now dropped the breakfast feed and I'm a bit sad at that, but never mind.