Ryn,
Just wanted to say how lovely it is that you are such strong, independent person with your own views and opinions. It can be very hard to "break the mold" when you have been raised with certain values and beliefs, but you are forming your own beliefs and challenging your family's way of doing things - which can be awfully confronting. Good on you. Keep it up. Your mum will soon learn that if she wants a happy relationship with her grandson, then she will have to start to listen to (and learn from) his wonderful mother!! Keep doing exactly as you are and enjoy your beautiful breastfed little boy.