Its just going to be hard to do this while my PIL are here as they are the ones who tell us off for giving her food. If i had it my way she would be eating proper solids instead of pureed food. She has 6 teeth i think its time she learnt how to use them.
time to put on your mumma bear boots and tell them to leave you to it. K is your kidlet, you do what you deem to be best for her. your PIL's had their chance with your OH, now it's up to you to raise K (and yup, i know how hard it can be to stand up to people, esp when they constantly try to put you down - but sometimes you have to step up - plus i'm sure you'd like the opportunity to prove them wrong!)