Thanks prettybutterfly! Exactly, I was just asking a question to know more about it, don't see what the problem is. Don't remember saying I thought only muslims had arranged marriages either...

Certainly no need to be defensive, anyone who had read these forums and knows me would know I would never criticise or put down another religion, and I definately wasn't. This is a place where people are able to ask questions openly about religious topics and I hope it stays that way.