I also think you should make the decision yourself, be confident in your decision & then tell your family & friends & the father that you have made your decision as it's your body. There will be no further discussions as it's YOUR CHOICE!

I have a friend whom at age 22 found herself pregnant to her boyfriend that had been on & off for 5 yrs, he told her it was her decision, his family told her to get rid of it & her family said they'd stand by her decision... She desperately wanted his family to accept her & for him to be in her life, but not just because of a baby, so she chose to terminate...
To this day she has never gotten over it & is a total basket case (honestly a sip of grog & she is in tears & talks about the age of the baby had she gone through with the preg!)
She is extremely hurtful, negative & jealous of her friends that are Mothers (married or not)...

But I also know my sister has terminated a pregnancy & lives with is... I dont speak to her much as she has a drug dependency & a 5 yr old, but she seems to have moved on from it!

I wsih you strength...

My Mum was married & had her last child at age 23... Why is it so bizarre for young Mothers these days????