I have talked to Dh about it. He is very supportive and is so proud that he will soon be a daddy! He tells me to just ignore comments that i dont want to hear from MIL, and does his best to put her back in her place. MIL can be really nice and caring most of the time, but i think she just wants to help too much.

As for the "looks", im trying to re-program my mind from negative thoughts, to positive thoughts. that helps alot. In the past few days ive noticed lots of people giving me really nice looks, more like "awww, she is going to have a baby!!" rather than "oh my god, look at her" looks. And that is just the best feeling!