Paris was planned at 20 so IKEWYM! Luckily for us my family or should I say DH's family were extremely supportive. But I don't socialise with HEAPS of friends I had back then, purely because they didn't understand and had a complete different lifestyle to me.

I contacted a gf I used to socialise with at school, and she told me flat out I was crazy. That I should have put my career first, and did I want to be one of those women who sat at home watching daytime television. Oh let me tell you I was thrilled to hear that. No we don't have a house, but we are definitely financially able to care for a child/children. Do I have a career? Yes. Motherhood. And I love it. And I'd personally like to know any mother who's child lets them watch daytime tv LOL! For me there are lots of reasons why I would like to have my children young. I like the fact that by the time I am in my early 40's I will pretty much be free to do other things whilst my kids are off exploring the world too. I want to be able to enjoy life with my children not before them. And should my kids want to have kids, I want to be able to run around with my grandkids not hobble around LOL! I look at my granny who's 69 she's a great granny, and could still run around after her great grand daughter, when most of her friends are only just getting grandchildren LOL!

Its a very personal choice, and I think if you think its right for you GO for it And goodluck with TTC.

*hugs*
Cailin