Ashant, I agree! You can vote at 18 but be killed for your country at 16. You can buy alcohol and cigarettes at 18 but have a baby legally at 16. You need parental consent to marry at 16. The law is crazy!

Our breastfeeding support group was originally for young mums, 25 and under. I was 25 when I had DS (he was 8 days old on my 26th birthday) so was able to slip into the group, mostly because it was a quiet group and younger mums didn't turn up.

Tali, I don't know about the right guy. Many girls seem to just grab a guy to get pregnant then dump him. It's really sad to see that happen. I was on the lookout for my Mr Right, but my sister can't see hers even though he flies to the States to buy her gifts from Tiffany's! (I really like her current chap.)