Donna: i spose its not ideal but if DH and his brother has been left the house, couldnt you sell it and go halves with his brother with the money and use your half of the money to get another place? or at least pay off half of a new place and have a really small mortgage to pay off? that really sucks that he doesnt pull his weight, it irks me so bad that people who dont work or do anything think they are so hard done by, and they get themselves into this downward spiral and it gets worse!!!
i worry cause my folks just did up thier will (neither of them are sick but they just wanted it done) and gave me a copy and cause my brother is disabled (down syndrome) hes been left 50% and me and my sister get 25% each, which i have no problem with at all infact im happy hes getting more, but i was reading it and theyve put me as carer of his trust/inheritance which freaks me out cause not only will i be caring for him and trying to find somewhere for him to live (at the moment lives with my folks) but also trying to manage a 6 figure fund for him.... yipes thanks for asking my input mum and dad lol


as for induction, on tuesday they did internal and said i was fully effaced but not dialated so i guess that means my cervix is pretty much ready to go, so the prostin gel alone may do the trick? i told DP that semen has prostoglandins in it (like the prostin gel) and i think he thought they put semen in you to induce you and was giving me this freaked out look it was pretty funny