my family were fine with it.
his were a bit more oh wow ok..
i think that was mainly because i was pregnant already(long story) technically the only child we have conceived together is DD2.. lol
but Dh has been there since i was 10 weeks pregnant with DD1
9/10 people dont even know.
my nan is 15 years younger than pop and he had kids to his first wife lol
its like every second generation does the date the older guy with kids thing
KM you know your relationship is strong, it may not be exactly what you want, but what would life be like if everything was exactly how you wanted it?? lol
me and al have our ups and downs and mostly over Ds's behaviour and his attitude, because he thinks he can treat us how he wants and we wont kick him out to his mums, and when he wants to hurt us eh tells us he is gonna move out..
Raffy- Congratulations! Thats great about you and your partner. And 3 years is a good time together before kids, you both have grown to love one another and have the same values and goals in life which is great. Some people have a problem with younger couples planning a family. While DD techinically wasn't planned as we wanted to start TTC april this year but if it happened it happened we didn't try and avoid it. We had some not nice things said to us but we celebrated our 6 year a month after she was born. I just shrug my shoulders and say its too late now
And yes life would be very boring if it all went to plan and i got everything i wanted (sometimes it would be nice) but iv grown up to work hard for the things i want. My sisters are always saying to me i live the perfect life... HAHAHAHAHA... ohhhh boy do they make me laugh, they see my relationship for what it is not how hard its taken us to get where we are. But DD is helping us to appreciate each other a bit more.
just popping in to sub to new thread im turning 25 in a few weeks dh is 24 together when he was 16 i was 17 engaged 3 weeks later lol together almost 8 years married over 5 ttc #5 prob late next year
kel i knew lol
MrsS i get the same thing, dont you hate when ppl walk past and have to say"dont you have your hands full" grrrrr even when everyone is being good
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