Raffy- Congratulations! Thats great about you and your partner. And 3 years is a good time together before kids, you both have grown to love one another and have the same values and goals in life which is great. Some people have a problem with younger couples planning a family. While DD techinically wasn't planned as we wanted to start TTC april this year but if it happened it happened we didn't try and avoid it. We had some not nice things said to us but we celebrated our 6 year a month after she was born. I just shrug my shoulders and say its too late now

And yes life would be very boring if it all went to plan and i got everything i wanted (sometimes it would be nice) but iv grown up to work hard for the things i want. My sisters are always saying to me i live the perfect life... HAHAHAHAHA... ohhhh boy do they make me laugh, they see my relationship for what it is not how hard its taken us to get where we are. But DD is helping us to appreciate each other a bit more.