Hi Meredith, DH & I are currently trying for no 3 as well. We have 2 gorgeous kids already DS6 & DD3. You can't change what you feel is right in your heart. I have had 4 m/c's (3 while trying for bubba no 3) & have just gone through extensive m/c testing. I'm sure those who know must think "why put yourself through that" but it is what I want. I feel also that we should be grateful that we even have kids & believe me everyday I am. Follow your heart & I hope your story has a happy ending x