Hi
I would have to say you need to do what is best for you and your husband. Not what everyone else thinks is best for you. Its hard for other people to understand our strong desire to become parents, especially when having children comes easily to them. If you do not want to give up ur dream of becoming a mum, then don't keep trying or look into different ways you can become a parent.
We tried to concieve naturally for 8 years before beginning IVF?ICSI. We had 5 unsuccessful cycles (2 freash, 3 frozen) before our 6th attempt (freash) resulted in pregnancy. Im soo glad we never gave up or I wouldn't have my little miracle man now.
Follow your heart - Do what you know is best for you & your hubby.
Good Luck xoxo