hi wonder,
im the same age as u (25 and hubby 25) i too get the "u are so young y not relax and let things happen" and i feel myself frustrated with this at times. we have been ttc for 2.5 yrs and have done 1 cancelled cycle and 1 stimulated cycle (failed embryo transfer) 0 frozen embryos and are about to do another stimulated cycle.

i know i would cut off my left leg if they told me that would give me a baby!!
i guess i think u will know in yourself if u need a break so follow your heart and i guess listen to your body u know it better than anyone else.
take care xx